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Body Language
By...
Julian Carosi
The Corsham
Referee
Andrew Castiglione
Ken Aston
Referee Society
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The
aim of this page is to help Referees maximize the use of body language
to impart authority and confidence.
| The use
of body language is an important part of the Referees man-management
technique. To be a successful Referee means that you must be
self-confident, and good at communicating effectively by using both
verbal and body language techniques. This is more important in the
early years, where Referees will not have the support of Assistant
Referees or colleagues on the local parks. Good communication skills
can be learned. Effective communication is not only necessary during
the game itself, it applies to the whole life of a Referee
(including acceptance of an appointment, to having a drink in the
bar after the game or dealing with the media). It is important in
all situations to be confident, without seeming arrogant. During
play, the club officials, assessors and the spectators may not hear
what the Referee says. So it is important that the correct body
language message is imparted. It is no good wagging a finger, or
being aggressive towards players or managers - the secret is "is to
control your feelings with a polite and confident outward
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A Referee can convey all
sorts of body language messages to players, coaches, managers and
spectators about his own emotions, confidence and ability. Non-verbal
body-language messages are more frequent and more powerful than verbal
messages. It is therefore, very important that Referees consider what
messages they are communicating to onlookers. Improving his
message-sending ability will greatly assist the Referee. Body language
includes your physical appearance, fitness, the clothes that you are
wearing, posture, eye contact, touching behavior, gestures, facial
expressions, arm and hand movements - and even no movement at all (by
standing still in the right place!) A Referee's body language often
speaks louder than words. Even making a correct call can cast doubts in
the minds of participants, if the corresponding body language does not
appear decisive.
There are several ways
for a Referee to communication to players. All of which must work
together to be effective. As a rough guide, experts estimate that of all
communication... 55% is through body language. Of the remainder, 38% of
communication is through the tone of voice, and 7% is the actual content
of what we say. It is therefore important that Referees don't send
confusing messages, or minimize the importance of the message being
given. To maximize communication, the body language must not contradict
what is being said, and the tone in which it is being delivered.
It is important that
Referees are aware of their feelings during a game. Being able to adapt
to suit each and every situation will enable you to communicate
efficiently. This flexibility is essential, and allows you to
communicate by adjusting your body language, tone of voice and
what you say, to suit the constantly changing moods of the game.
Ask yourself the
following questions:
- What feeling
do I convey to the players? (Confident? Interested? Knowledgeable?
Enthusiastic? Cold? Scared out of my wits?)
- How do I look?
(Tidy? Professional? Clean? Slovenly? Dirty? Shirt not tucked in?)
- How do I
sound? (Scared? Quiet? Loud? Confident? Know what I am talking
about? Don't have a clue? Authoritative? Polite? Rude? Mumbling?
Below is a list
body-languages! that a Referee can consider:
Attendance
of Training: Don't slump in the back row,
in your t-shirt and sandals. Dress smartly, sit upright near the front,
and show those who are in charge of your development and promotion, that
you mean business, and want to get on (and take your Refereeing career
seriously).
Acceptance
of Appointments: If you are given a 'bum'
game, don't blow out your cheeks or roll your eyes upwards. Show the
Appointment Secretary, that you can be relied on to officiate in any
game. This will show that you are confident and can be relied on to do a
good job.
Arrival at
the Ground: This will be your first chance
to make an impression with the players and the club officials (and any
assessor watching behind the tree!). Make sure your dress is tidy, and
walk upright towards the changing room. Be friendly and polite at all
times. And most of all, make sure you arrive on time so that you are not
rushing to prepare yourself for the game. Do not have a 'fag' hanging
out of your mouth. Chewing gum can also be seen as being arrogant and
over confident - and is certainly not good manners.
Inspecting
the Field of play: Before the game starts,
the Referee will need to inspect the field. This is a very good
opportunity to show that you are capable, confident and have the
authority to deal with anything. It very often happens, that coaches are
warming up their players during your inspection - so here is your chance
to use your body language to good effect. Give them a friendly wave or
two. Do not, walk around with your shoulders slumped, fag in mouth or
socks rolled down. Be smart, and think about what sort of impression
you are giving to onlookers. You don't have to "strut your stuff" - just
look as though you are interested and efficient at what you are doing -
and that you really want to be there!. This is the time when players
will 'weigh you up' before the match. At the same time, it also allows
you to 'weigh the players up!"
Avoid, pacing up
and down, around or displaying a wide range of emotions prior to or
during a game. This will only serve to make you seem vulnerable to the
pressure.
Entering the
field of play at the start of the game:
This is the most important body language time for the Referee. Striding
out confidently, looking smart and well dressed is half the battle when
you're Refereeing. If you are going to make a first impression - now's
the time to do it. You don't get a second chance to make a first
impression.
Below are some very
simple rules:
During the game:
Below are many suggestions for consideration:
- If you anticipate that
the perpetrator's) is approaching you in a manner that suggests that
he will take some stopping as he approaches you. Tell him to "calm
down", "slow down", "keep a distance away" or any other verbal warning
that you can think of to that effect. Do not put the whistle to your
mouth (unless you want to lose more teeth than is necessary under the
circumstances). At the same time, use your 'body language' by holding
out both of your hands palms forward (like shooing cows back) and
gesture at them to slow down and demonstrate this by shooing the cows
(sorry players) back. Do not stand still at first when you are doing
this, else you are likely to get stampeded. Use a bit of Law 18 Common
sense, and gain a few extra moments by moving backwards a few steps
whilst making the warning actions just mentioned.
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When
issuing a caution or a sending off, do not thrust the card in the
player's face or up his nose (even though you would very much like to
do so!) Ask the player to face you, look him in the eye, and merely
raise the card in the air to one side of the player (and not directly
at him). Thrusting a card at the player will only aggravate the
matters further.
- When issuing a
warning, or talking to a player, ALWAYS look them in the eye when you
are speaking to them. This is very important, as it demonstrates that
you are in charge, and are serious in what you are saying. It is
natural to look away when admonishing a player. Looking players in the
eye is probably one of the best improvements you can make with your
body-language skills - and it lets the players know who is in charge
of policing the Laws. YOU and not THEM!
- The 'Ref. Stare’
is a very good body language tool when a player is some distance away
from you, and is moaning and groaning. The 'Ref. Stare’ lets the
player know that you have heard what he is saying, and that you are
aware of him! This is best done when the ball is out of play. If you
do it during play, remember not to lose concentration on the game
itself. It works a treat, and you can do it even if the player is at
the other end of the field of play. If the player is not initially
looking at you (this is because he knows you have spotted him, and he
is trying to avoid eye contact with you) - his eyes will eventually
meet yours – and no words are needed. Stare at him for about 5
seconds. A slight shake of your head from side to side will also
strengthen the purpose of your message for him to behave. The 'Ref.
Stare' must NOT be done in such a way that players might accuse
you of threatening them with your looks. This would put you into the
position of being the accused.
- In addition to this,
when you have engaged the players’ eyes, another tip is to use another
body language method. Use your hand to mime the ‘zip your mouth’
movement, by pretending that you are zipping your own mouth closed.
This is a very easy way impart your views (without words) over long
(or even short) distances on the field of play.
- Any hand
gestures that you make when communicating to players should be
descriptive of what you are trying to communicate. Your hands should
emphasize what it is that you are saying. Use open clear movements and
try to avoid small hesitant hand movements that will make you seem
nervous.
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A wry
smile, with wide-open eyes as you run by, is also most disconcerting
to a misbehaving player. This tells him that you are aware of his bad
behavior, and he had better look out!
- Temporarily
readjusting your diagonal to stand near a trouble maker is another
easy way of letting the perpetrator know you are "on his case"! This
works best during goal kicks and throw-ins.
- For moaning players
who are approaching you - use one hand to ‘brush away the fly’. In
other words, use your arm and hand to wave away the trouble maker.
This is doubly effective, if you do it whilst moving away from the
player, to get into your new position. Hanging around will only serve
to create an unnecessary argument.
- A simple shake of the
head whilst looking at the player is another simple method of putting
the player ‘in his place’.
- When you have given a
free kick, move away swiftly to a new position. Staying near the area
of the free kick will invite dissenting comments. Players will never
(or very rarely) run after you, if you’re quick enough. There will of
course be occasions when you will need to remain near the area of a
free kick (ceremonial free kicks, and when a player has been injured,
or when you anticipate confrontation between opposing players.
- If a player decides to
retie his bootlaces when you are about to speak to him, ask him to
"Please stand up whilst I am talking to you." At the same time, use
both your hand palms facing upwards, and move them upwards to indicate
to the player to stand up. This also lets onlookers know what you are
doing, and that there may be a delay before play is restarted. If you
can, avoid bending over yourself, because placing yourself below eye
level makes you inferior. Keep a straight back and shoulders.
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It is
important to become slower and more deliberate when giving signals
during the game. There is no requirement to break the land speed
signal record.
- Use "clear and
definite signals" when restarting play, awarding free kicks,
throw-ins and goal kicks, etc? An experienced Referee will give a firm
and positive direction to players with the use of arm signals. It is
no good giving a limp pointing signal that conveys to players an
impression of "it's sort of in that direction...I think...".
This also goes for Assistant Referees who give a limp wave of the flag
in the general direction of where they think the throw-in (or free
kick) should go. Give a clear signal at all times. Crisp, positive
signals show that you have made a confident decision. Sloppy signals
such as bent-arm, unclear direction, or not shown long enough, suggest
to players and spectators that you are less than confident in your
decision-making.
- The way that you move
should convey the impression that you have total confidence and belief
in what you are doing.
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It is not
always best, when dealing with trouble makers in the game, to always
have a pleasant easygoing style, a quick smile, and calm demeanor.
Although this can create a positive environment that has a soothing
effect on players and coaches, it can on other occasions inflame
passions. Referees will need to judge each incident, and whether or
not a more authoritative stance should be taken.
- Never use
finger-pointing or get into a verbal argument with troublemakers.
- If a manager or coach
is moaning from the technical area, but the moaning is not enough to
warrant you giving them a warning; do not purposefully stand nearby
with the sole purpose to antagonize the situation further. Doing this
will only lead to further tensions.
- Never react (or reply)
to comments from spectators.
- If you have to speak
to club officials during the game, do not sprint towards them. Walk at
a moderate pace or "stroll purposefully". This will allow a bit more
time for tempers to decrease and give you some precious thinking time.
Most comments from the sidelines are merely frustrations being vented.
Understanding which comments, moans and groans or questions merit a
response is a key to success in Refereeing. Yelling back at Club
Officials will only create a "mountain out of a mole hill". More than
often, the Referee can use body language alone to get the "right"
message. You can do this by nodding your head slightly, smiling
momentarily, glancing at the perpetrator, holding eye contact for a
moment or two, shaking your head or using your hands to hold up a stop
sign, with both arms outstretched and palms facing the perpetrator.
Each of these methods has a particular meaning that can be used wisely
to communicate over a distance.
- During dead-ball
periods when play has stopped, don't stand still with your arms on
your hips or folded, or shoulders slumped, or looking at the gorgeous
talent parading on the touchlines! (Well, I suppose it would not hurt
too much to have just have a quick peek!) This will give the
impression that you are bored or would rather be elsewhere.
- Be alert and
interested at all times. One of the greatest difficulties with
Refereeing is learning to concentrate 100% of the time. The easier a
game is to control, the harder it is to concentrate properly. These
are the sorts of games where a 'flash point' will occur, and you will
not be ready to react in time to minimize the ensuing confrontation.
- Never let your body
language signals conveys your emotions. Your facial expression, body
language and voice should not suggest you're happy or unhappy to be
enforcing a decision, particularly when it is a penalty! This is the
time when you need to put on your 'stony faced' expression, and to
unemotionally look any dissenter directly in the eye. Do not allow
your body language to convey your displeasure when an incident occurs.
- As you look around
troublemakers on the field of play, use eye contact to focus on one
player at a time. This technique is effectively used by public
speakers when communicating to an audience. It's as though you are
having a series of brief one-on-one encounters with each player. If
you are looking around several players to let them know you are aware
of their troublemaking, and will be keeping a close watch on them -
make sure you make brief eye contact with each of them in turn, before
moving on to the next.
- When no offence has
occurred, you can put both hands behind your back and shake your head
- thus demonstrating to a player that no foul has occurred. This is a
commonly used body language maneuver, most effective when ignoring
penalty pleas by players.
- When a player makes a
good tackle, and you allow play to continue (but one player disagrees
with you); a simple motion of moving your hands in the shape of a ball
shows that you believe that the ball was won fairly, and that play
should not be stopped. This 'moving your hands in the shape of a ball'
signal can also be used when calling for a new ball, when the old one
has landed in the river!
- When a player loses a
tackle, and falls to the ground, and you allow play to continue (but
the player disagrees with you), a simple motion of waggling your
fingers upwards with an arm outstretched towards him, shows that you
believe that the ball was won fairly, and that play should not be
stopped. And that he should GET UP!
Assistant Referees
(Click here for further flag signals and Assistant Referee advice.)
- On indicating corner
kicks, another alternative is for Assistant Referees to run around
outside of the corner flag post, and stand about 2 meters along the
goal line. This demonstrates to the Referee that you (the Assistant
Referee (have indicated a corner kick).
- On indicating goal
kicks, another alternative is for Assistant Referees to stand on the
touch line adjacent to the level of the goal area line, turn your body
so that it is facing towards the half way line and leave your flag
pointing downwards tight to the leg that is facing the field of play.
This demonstrates to the Referee that you (the Assistant Referee (
have indicated a goal kick).
The above two body language indications, rely on the instructions
given to the Assistant Referees during their pre-match brief. Some
Referees like to see normal flag signals at corners and goal kicks,
others like their Assistant Referees to use the two body language
maneuvers mentioned above. Assistant Referees can during the game,
also use a combination of both flag signals and/or body language to
indicate to the Referee whether a goal-kick or a corner-kick should be
given. The idea of Assistant Referees using body language at corners
and goal kicks, is that it allows the Referee a few seconds to
overrule the Assistant Referee, without the players knowing what the
Assistant Referee has indicated (corner of goal kick?)
- Advantage or play-on
body language signals by an Assistant Referee risk causing major
confusion. Assistant Referees should not shout or indicate ‘Play on’
or ‘Advantage’. This is always the prerogative of the Referee. The
Referee is the only match official who should indicate advantage.
Assistant Referees have been seen to indicate "Play-on. Advantage", by
putting out their arm or a hand, following an assumed offside that had
not been given by that Assistant Referee. The Referee is the only one
who should indicate "Play-on. Advantage". Imagine a situation
following a foul, where the Assistant Referee uses an arm signal to
indicate "Play-on. Advantage", and then a goal is scored which is
subsequently disallowed because the Referee calls play back for the
original foul and awards a free kick instead.
- Assistant Referees
should give "clear and definite flag signals" indicating
offside, free kicks, throw-ins and goal kicks, etc?. It is no good
giving a limp wave of the flag in the general direction of where you
think the throw-in (or free kick) should go. Give a clear flag signal
at all times. Crisp, positive signals show that you have made a
confident decision. Sloppy signals such as bent-arm, unclear
direction, unfurled flag, or not shown long enough, suggest to players
and spectators that you are less than confident in your
decision-making.
- Hold the flag
downwards whilst running. Show as much flag area as you can towards
the Referee at all times. Switch hands to keep the flag always showing
towards the field of play side and visible to the Referee - especially
during floodlight games when visibility is impaired.
- Skip sideways to keep
level with 2nd last defender, when watching for off-side. The
‘side-stepping’ maneuver by Assistant Referees is a common method used
here in England. In fact. Phil Sharp (our World Cup Assistant Referee
2002) has perfected this method, and can side-step faster than I can
run straight! The idea of side-stepping (we call it ‘Crabbing’ here in
England) is to allow the Assistant Referee to stay in line with the
second last defender whilst facing the field of play. The ‘crabbing’
method is used to good effect when defenders and attackers are moving
around at a slow to medium pace – but of course, when players speed
up, the Assistant Referee will have to revert to straight sprinting to
keep up with the second last defender. ‘Crabbing’ involves facing the
field of play and side-stepping’ up and down along the touchline.
- Eye-contact and
discreet hand signals from an Assistant Referee maybe helpful in
passing information to a Referee e.g. type of offence, next action
etc. This would reduce the need for him to come across to the
Assistant Referee for consultation.
- When the ball enters a
goal: To confirm a valid goal has been scored, an Assistant Referee
should display clear movement down the touchline towards the center
line. In borderline cases, this movement should be clear (sprint) to
be recognized by the referee. To confirm a goal, the assistant referee
should not raise his flag. If in his opinion a goal has not been
scored correctly, the Assistant Referee should stand still, retaining
any signal already given. The referee may then choose to consult
further if he needs additional guidance.
- Whenever the ball
leaves the field of play, the flag signal of the assistant referee
should show clearly the correct restart and direction. In clear
throw-in situations, the assistant referee can directly show the
direction (along the whole touch line). But if he has any doubt about
the direction, the assistant referee should simply raise his flag,
make eye contact with the referee and follow the referee's signal. On
very tight decisions, when the ball stays in play, a discreet hand
signal could give valuable support to the referee.
- There are many types
of signals between the Referee and the Assistant Referee during a
game, some of which are listed below, many of which are used without
the players even knowing:
Time Down
signal: Assistant Referee uses
fingers outstretched downwards along the outside of the shorts or on
his shirt to indicate to the Referee 1,2,3,4,or 5 minutes remaining in
the half.
Time Out:
The Assistant Referee can use the clenched fist either across the
chest or down the side of the shorts to indicate to the Referee that
45 minutes have expired.
Thumbs
Up/Down: To indicate that you
are happy with any decisions - or not !
Nod/shake
Head: Can be used to indicate
that you are happy with the Referee's decision - for example, after a
goal has been allowed by the Referee or the award of a penalty.
Eye
Contact: Movement of the eyes
can indicate a free kick direction to the Referee. Also allows the
Assistant Referees' and the Referee to feel part of a team and to
build up a rapport.
Hand
Indications: Movement of the
hand can indicate to the Referee that you've seen a hand-ball by a
player.
Tugging
Gesture: Indicates to the
Referee that you have seen a player tugging an opponents shirt.
Direction
Signal: A discrete hand
direction signal will indicate to the Referee which side is entitled
to the free kick. (Note - Assistant Referees should never indicate
advantage - this is always the prerogative of the Referee).
Standing
on the pitch: This will indicate
to the Referee, that you wish to talk to him. If you (the Assistant
Referee) believe there has been an infringement that the Referee may
not have seen that requires discussion, wave your flag until the
Referee I acknowledges you. Once acknowledged, take one pace onto the
field of play and bring the fingers of your free hand up to you mouth
to clearly indicate that you need to speak to the Referee.
Miming:
You can mime words to the Referee - for example "No" to indicate that
a player was not in an offside position.
- For very tight
judgments where an Assistant Referee decides "not offside" (or the
ball has not gone out of the field of play) a 'discreet' hand signal
may give valuable support to the Referee when the Referee makes
eye-contact.
After the
game: Below are some tips for
consideration:
- After ending
the half, make your way calmly to meet your Assistant Referees.
- Give the
players a warm hand shake, and not the old 'wet-fish' version!
- Leave the
field of play by walking in a relaxed manner
- Pick the ball
up in your hands. Do not dribble the ball back into the changing
rooms.
- Be smart and
professional when you go for a drink in the bar after the game.
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